Anything Goes (for women)

I am often amazed by what women can get away with as opposed to men. In the fashion world, women can wear just about anything and the worst criticism they will hear is something looks bad, is inappropriate for the function or doesn’t look good on them.
Men cannot step outside the bounds of pants, shorts [...]

The World Isn’t Fair.

I often find myself sitting in a restaurant, an office or walking down the street when I notice a really nice pair of heels on a woman. Today, it was at lunch and a blonde woman was sitting in a booth with her legs crossed placing her foot just outside the booth. She was wearing a [...]

Cultural Influences – There is no gender

Cultural influences are a powerful driver in how we develop and are the basis for the rules placed on people living in a specific cultural group. There are many studies that have shown that boys and girls do not inherently migrate toward what we consider respective male and female toys and colors. Raised in a gender sterile environment, just [...]

Is It Really A Man’s World?

Everywhere you go you hear the phrase, “It’s a man’s world.” Is it really or is that just an urban legend or something that has carried forward from our past?
I do believe that in the past, in the United States and Europe, men did have the upper hand in everything from jobs to politics. In [...]

What is Normal?

People that have hobbies and interests that lie outside what the mainstream considers ‘normal’ are often forced to keep their activities and interests private, almost secret. Those that don’t are often called weird and looked at differently. It can affect friendships, jobs and acceptance into groups and activities.
Society is hung up on what it considers [...]

Reactions from the Public

When people find out I wear heels in public, their first question is why. The second question is almost always, “How do people react?”
If you have been reading my prior posts, you know, in my experience, most people do not even notice. I would guess that less than 1% actually notice I am wearing heels.
Of [...]

A Guy’s Life In Heels

I often wear heels on evenings and weekends. Work would not understand and I don’t want to cause problems in the workplace so I wear men’s dress shoes during the workday.
Surprisingly to me, very, very few people even notice. I wear jeans or long pants with an extra 4″ of length that covers most of [...]

Qupid Shoes – New Discovery

I recently discovered a brand of shoes I had not run across before.  I happened to run across them at Burlington Coat Factory here in the US. Qupid Shoes produces a very wide variety and styles of women’s shoes, including a large assortment of great heels.
You can visit their website, but it does not sell [...]

Halloween: Excuse to Step Out in Heels

All of you guys that secretly wear heels in private. Yes, you there reading this blog. I can understand your apprehension about taking your heeling into public but it is halloween. This is your chance to wear your most outrageous pink stilettos out on the streets without anyone thinking you are strange. Those of us that do wear our [...]

My Dream Closet

I am jealous. This is my dream closet! 

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